Perhaps this will be the most complex topic we will address in my book. While we can master a habit in twenty-one days, it takes years to transform our mindset. The most important thing is to deal as consciously as possible with the current situations that we encounter in our daily lives. Let’s try to look through the glasses that shape the new approach. In what follows, I will share the approach that has had the most significant impact on me in the last two years.
To understand the story's roots, it is essential to know the regional specialty that characterizes Hungary. If we look at the European average, the property owned per capita is the highest here. But what is the impact of this on thinking? Here we return to the tree of life already used in the first chapter of my book.
THE ROOT
Most people in Hungary cling to something with solid roots, such as a property or a job. The main reason for this is that they are looking for material goods that they can cling to even in a bad situation. In contrast, for truly successful people, the root is much more self-confidence and realistic self-esteem. If we are constantly working to strengthen our own roots, which will be much more tied to ourselves than material goods, we can live more and more freely.
If we have enough confidence in ourselves, we can also undress fear in our workplace. What is the worst thing about being fired? We are continuing our careers in a new place, which will not change how we go towards our goal. The maximum turnaround time can vary depending on the salary. Here we come to the next important point, for the money. Perhaps this is another topic that often comes up as taboo, though much more straightforward than what we attribute to it. I see it as energy from my own perspective, which fuels the direction of the future. We are constantly producing and using. What changes in the ratio between the two processes? Just as magnetic fields determine our world, so it is no different with money. No matter how conscious we think we are, we have a severe impact on magnetic processes.
We can also do a straightforward exercise to shape our approach. Through this, we quickly understand the difference, which is characterized by two sharply opposite worlds of thought.
What is most bothering you? What are we going to buy next, or what are the savings we want to achieve next?
In the first case, we can say that we repel money because we focus on spending, while in the second case, we focus more on attracting money.
Both cases are exponential processes. While in the first case, only our available money runs out first, and then the loans come later. In the trap of constant hunger, many will always buy more and more things and long for more and more things.
Basically, even this is not a problem if the savings process is on the rise. Ideally, the goat will also live well, and the cabbage will survive.
I hope these words will make a change in your life!